At this time of the year, called Candlemas
or Imbolc by some, when the circle is turning once again and
the light is returning, we begin to let go of the darkness,
the time of pondering, gestating and going within, and now begin
to embrace a more active role, making this a great time to take
action and speak to the ideas and attitudes associated with
hope and fearlessness.
Just what is hope? According to Webster’s dictionary,
hope can be described in many ways....
1) The feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events
will turn out for the best.
2) A particular instance of this feeling - i.e., the hope of
winning
3) A person or thing in which expectation is centered
4) Something that is hoped for
5) To look forward to with desire and confidence
6) To believe, desire or trust
7) To feel that something desired may happen.
Or finally, one can strive for the seemingly impossible and
hope against hope.
Perhaps you may be aware that for years now, we have all been
living in a climate of fear which brings about feelings of hopelessness,
insecurity and vulnerability. We constantly hear about global
warming, war, terrorism, economic uncertainty, corruption of
our political and religious leaders, corporate fascism, disaster
exploitation, super viruses, the lack of health care. It goes
on and on ad nauseam.
You know fear. We’ve all been there. At a minimum, it
is a feeling of “otherness” that isolates us and
causes us to doubt ourselves. Or it can elevate way beyond that
causing us to impulsively act in ways that are illogical, life-threatening
and against our own long-term benefit. Fear must be transcended—and
can be transcended—but first we must understand the science
of fear and fear’s close cousins, hate and anxiety. It’s
in our human DNA—it is a primary reaction for survival.
If primitive man and woman didn’t pay attention and flee
from the rustling bushes, they might have been eaten and humanity
would not have evolved so we can be here together today. It’s
as simple as that. We are wired to respond to fear more quickly
than logic. Fear usually always overrules reason. It’s
a powerful, primal reaction. When you feel your mood change
and your body react and become tense, it’s happening and
needs to be kept in check. Knowing that, logically, that this
is the human condition, we have the first tool to battle fear.
Think about that the next time you open the newspaper or turn
on the news. And dare I say, the POWERS THAT BE often encourage
that fear within us with talk of World War III, with moronic
suggestions that plastic tarps and duct tape can protect us
from nuclear fall-out, or color coded terror alerts constantly
raising and lowering awareness, keeping us on an emotional roller-coaster
and off balance—even strategically timing alerts for political
gain. When we constantly receive these pictures and take in
these words and thoughts, our clarity becomes distorted—we
are more easily manipulated. From this fearful place, we might
more easily be duped to look for a white knight who can ride
in and save us.
I’m going to suggest to each of you today, YOU ARE YOUR
OWN WHITE KNIGHT.
If our leaders have failed us and there is no long anyone in
the public arena telling us or our children we are powerful,
we are capable, we have nothing to fear but fear itself, then
we have to practice that ourselves. We have to value ourselves
and step forward into fearlessness, removing the obstacles that
prevent us from doing so. Perhaps that means creating a community
of support. It might mean being a trailblazer yourself—even
if you are afraid—because by your action, your seeming
fearlessness, the very act of your trying, the energy is contagious
and it inspires and gives another permission to try, to risk,
to act.
Maybe by now you see I’m not just talking about politics.
I’m talking about stretching ourselves, challenging ourselves,
trying to accomplish things we might feel a bit are beyond us.
It is a journey of becoming, of growing, that we all must take
and we cannot be afraid of the journey because it is the journey
that steels us, it’s the trying, the praying, the challenging,
the seeking, the very act of DOING that staves off fear and
fills us with hope and inspiration. The destination doesn’t
necessarily hold the reward. The reward comes from that which
has been gleaned from the journey.
The destination is just where
you take a deep breath, relax, and reflect—after the journey
has molded you.
Sometimes, as we get older, we naturally become more fearless.
We’ve weathered a lot of storms and we are not so easily
daunted. We might be more willing to try things, to throw spaghetti
against the wall and see what might stick. And if we are fortunate
enough to be in that place or mind-set, it might be a good thing
to help those around us to believe in themselves, to encourage
and support one another, particularly women to women, rather
than compete or diminish one another.
And we don’t want to spout empty platitudes. Neither are
we going to tell you to go out and SHOP to ward off evil or
to prevent bad things from happening to your family. Because
the more aware and enlightened know among us know the end game
is not “those with the most toys win.” Was it Jesus
who said the rich man has a better chance of passing through
the eye of a needle than entering the gates of heaven?
We are going to give you a few options that you can carry forward
with you into your everyday life that might be useful tools
or a springboard for your own ideas to keep yourself inspired
and cultivating HOPE and thereby keeping fear and hopelessness
at bay. And soon, if you take baby steps, they will become a
part of your psyche and your new paradigm. You’ll find
yourself rising to challenges more easily, meeting bigger and
bigger challenges with less and less fear and trepidation and
you will not be so easily duped, confused or manipulated.
But remember, we have to work against our brain’s programming
- and that’s all it is. The fear impulse sometimes keeps
us safe, but it often has nothing to do with logic and may cause
us to act against our own best interest.
According to Daniel Gilbert, Harvard University psychology researcher,
“Negative emotions such as fear, hatred and disgust tend
to provoke behavior more than positive emotions such as hope
and happiness do.”
Edmund Burke, 18th century political theorist, observed: “No
passion so effectually robs the mind of all its powers of acting
and reasoning as fear.”
Then we must act to transcend the fear, and there are many coping
mechanisms.
1) Contemplate Goddess and/or the Divine Couple and your connection
to her or them.
2) Use meditation to go within and find stillness.
3) Use breathing techniques or physical activity to ward off
anxiety and fear.
4) After a good night’s sleep, everything looks better
in the morning!
5) Recall images or thoughts that make you feel powerful.
Two of my favorites are Sekhmet’s fiery eyes like lasers
removing obstacles or two scenes from The Lord of the Rings
movies. One is where Gandolf stands before the demon, alone,
with only his personal power and staff. And he commands the
demon, “You shall not pass!” And Gandolf prevails.
The second is in the final movie of the trilogy when another
demon beast is coming for one of the warriors and tries to intimidate,
stating, “No man can kill me!” The warrior reaches
up and whips off her helmet to reveal she is a woman and shouts,
“But I am not a man!” and she slays the beast dead.
Gandolf and the female warrior transcended fear in their doing
as we, too, may do our best work and accomplish amazing things
once we are no longer afraid of death or failure.
Note: Sacred Sundays services are provided to offer a safe place
to share sacred space, to offer a few hours one can look forward
to each month to carve out time for yourself or with your family
or friends. It is a niche where you can be with a like-minded
community and of course, to seek out the Divine within and to
strengthen that connection with Deity.
With Sacred Sundays we hope to create an environment where each
of us is able, for a time, to slip out of our commercialized,
corporate culture and slip into a new culture, formed from diverse
ethnic backgrounds and a rich variety of poetic, mythological,
ritual, folk and mystery traditions. We ask that in each Sacred
Sundays services, you attempt to open yourself to new ideas
and feelings, to share your thoughts in the safety of our circle
and to be prepared to find your creativity, your wildness, and
your wisdom.
During Sacred Sundays we strive for balance, peace, harmony
and love, so we honor the Sacred Feminine as primary, complemented
by the Divine Masculine, and thus our services are open to people
of all faiths, traditions and spiritual backgrounds.
Each month we will introduce a new deity and concept with January
being that of Hope and Fearlessness.

Karen Tate, independent scholar of
the Sacred Feminine has successfully published two books. Sacred
Places of Goddess: 108 Destinations (CCC Publishing)
is available in bookstores now and has been given the thumbs
up by the J. Paul Getty Villa Museum bookstore and the Joseph
Campbell Foundation. Walking An Ancient Path; Rebirthing Goddess
on Planet Earth (O-Books/John Hunt Publishing) is anxiously
anticipated and will be available in June 2008. Karen lectures
at public, private and academic institutions, minsters at Sacred
Sundays interfaith services based on the Divine Feminine and
is the hostess of her own internet radio show, Voices of the
Sacred Feminine. She has a sacred tour planned in October 2008
to Turkey. For more information go to www.karentate.com