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Dr. Deborah King received a doctorate
in law from the University of California along with a PhD
in Healing Science from the New Mexico Theological Seminary.
And it is her personal mission to help midwife humanity
through its birth into a deeper, and more heightened spiritual
consciousness. Dr. King has an extraordinary gift of insight
and healing that she tirelessly shares with thousands of
people across the country. In this groundbreaking work she
helps them come to terms with the real, and often hidden,
issues behind their addictions, physical ailments, depression
and obesity. In her new book, Truth Heals: What You Hide
Can Hurt You, Dr. King reveals the transformational power
that lies within the simple truth and how hiding from that
truth manifests as our physical and spiritual challenges
in life. As a leading health & wellness expert, she
is a popular guest on CNN and Fox News, a national keynote
speaker, and a “healer to the stars.” Her fascinating
and innovative work is guaranteed to change the way you
nurture your emotional well-being.
Kathryn: Dr. King, thank you so much
for taking time today for our interview. And the first thing
I want to say is that I’ve read your book, Truth
Heals: What You Hide Can Hurt You, and I am
truly impressed with your work. I absolutely love the beautiful
way in which it is written; your honesty and integrity is
utterly breathtaking. So, to begin, please share with me
some of your personal journey that lead to your writing,
Truth Heals.
Dr. King: Well, at the point I stopped to write, Truth
Heals I was just finishing a tour of the United
States where I had put on about fifty workshops and events
across the country. I was working with people in public
settings, and I was literally meeting with thousands and
thousands of people. At that time it dawned on me that I
could reach a lot more people by writing a book. I had already
written a memoir many years before. I had all of my notes
from my clients, celebrity and otherwise, along with all
my notes from teaching all these many years. So, I just
needed to stop and put it all together.
Kathryn: And the main thrust of your
book is that anything, any suppressed truth or trauma we
experience, will eventually manifest itself as pain or illness
in the body.
Dr. King: Yes, it does. It does for everyone. And I have
not seen any exceptions. It is just a matter of time. For
some people, it might take a week or a year to manifest,
and for others, it might be thirty years. But ultimately,
it will raise its ugly head.
Kathryn: Now, in the book you write
about having gone through a very painful and traumatic childhood
that lead to addictions in adulthood, and finally to an
occurrence of cancer in your twenties. So, all of this lead
to the writing of book…
Dr. King: Oh, yes, of course. All of that is background.
Kathryn: Could you share a little more
background for our readers today?
Dr. King: Sure. When I was in my twenties, I was an attorney,
and I thought I had a happy life. I knew I was challenged
by illness; I had been since I was in my teens. It seemed
as though if it was not one thing, it was another that I
was dealing with. I suffered from a lot of depression, I
had an eating disorder, and I band-aided the whole thing,
as so many people do, with substance abuse. I was addicted
to both prescription medication and alcohol. I exhibited
a lot of acting out and a lot of wild behavior. Yet, even
so, I was thinking that life was just dandy!
Kathryn: So, you were still functioning
well?
Dr. King: Oh, yes, I was highly functional. What brought
it all to a grinding halt was the cancer diagnosis when
I was twenty-five. At that point, I thought that maybe there
was something wrong with my life and that perhaps I should
pause. You know, this is the great message for so many people,
Kathryn. It takes a serious illness to make them stop and
look at themselves. So, I went to see western practitioners
and was told that surgery was necessary. Remember, this
was twenty-five years ago so, the surgery was pretty invasive
and therefore, I was really reluctant. As a result, that
is when I dipped my toe in the world of complimentary medicine.
Before that time, I had never visited the realm of alternative
healing. Because I was so skeptical I started out very conservatively.
After I’d tried about two or three different modalities,
I ended up on the table of a woman who described herself
as an energy healer. Under her care I had a very transformative
experience, and a spontaneous remission of the cancer. Needless
to say, I was pretty impressed.
Kathryn: I know I would be!
Dr. King: Yea, I was… I was really intrigued.
Kathryn: When you say “spontaneous
remission”, was this something that occurred in a
matter of weeks or months?
Dr. King: Well, you know, I’d had blood tests and
x-rays, and I had them redone in less than a week, and the
cancer was gone.
Kathryn: Wow… that is remarkable!
Dr. King: See, I could feel something happening in my body,
and I said to myself, “what is this?” So, I
was intrigued and I decided that I would study this to figure
this one out. I started attending schools in different parts
of the United States. I ultimately spend many, many years
actually, working with different healers, sages and shamans.
At the same time, I was maintaining my law practice. I lead
a dual existence where I would take a week off, every month,
to go somewhere to study with wise men and women, around
the world.
Kathryn: Doctor, do you have a name
that you give to your brand of healing today? Or is it an
incorporation of all the things you’ve studied around
the world?
Dr. King: You know, I haven’t really given it a name.
It is different things that I’ve found around the
world, but also, it combines some things that I have been
given, in the last couple of years, that I am anxious to
pass on to others. And that’s just how it works. At
first, you are the student at the feet of the Master, and
the next thing you know, you’re passing it on to someone
else.
Kathryn: I read in an interview with
you that you speak to the soul of your client while you
basically wrap them up in a blanket of unconditional love.
In this way, you give them the opportunity to go to the
next level, if they so choose.
Dr King: Yes, if they’re ready, that’s how it
works.
Kathryn: That reminds me of a quote
from Marianne Williamson. She said, “Healing is a
return to love.” So, is that where the healing comes
from, that unconditional love?
Dr. King: No, no I wouldn’t exactly say that. First
of all, let me kind of backup and rephrase that. First,
I’m not speaking to them as much as I’m listening.
I’m actually hearing at a level where I can hear their
souls speak. I’ll see their life sort of summarized
with all the high and low points.
Kathryn: Do you see this in picture,
images…
Dr. King: Yes, often that’s true, but sometimes I
hear it. And lots of times, I just know it. I used to work
with people individually, and then I found, about three
or four years ago, that I could affect transformations better
if I worked in groups. In public it happens much quicker.
I don’t really know why.
Kathryn: So, do you think you pull
on the energies of the collective group to affect the healings?
Dr. King: No, no I don’t do that. I’ve just
found the work goes quicker in a group. But no, I am not
using the group energy. I do listen deeply to know what
needs to be done. Then, if it’s meant to be and the
timing is right, change can be affected right then and there.
This is not just on the energy level, but on the physical
level so, we have cellular change. Yet, when you heard me
talking about people moving to another level spiritually,
that is a very different thing that goes on. Lots of times
I work with people who are ready to move up spiritually.
That’s a different animal. They might be ill and in
need of healing, yet often, that is just not the case.
Kathryn: While I was doing my research
to prepare for our interview, I came across this quote of
yours that I fell in love with: You said, “Our grace
comes from our imperfections.”
Dr. King: Oh, yea, that’s so true. And another thing
I often say is what people are most afraid of other people
knowing, what they think of as their greatest weakness,
is actually their greatest strength. And that becomes the
truth from which you hide. But it’s not the truth
you’re hiding from everybody else, but rather the
one you don’t acknowledge yourself that causes the
most problems. Typically when I work with an audience, a
volunteer will come up to the stage and tell me they don’t
know why they are having so many problems with their skin.
Well, I’ll know immediately what the problem really
is. My job is to help them drop into that truth. Whether
it is the marriage they’re in or the resolved relationship
with a parent, invariably they will admit they always knew
it was the real problem, but they didn’t want to acknowledge
it. Because we really do know our deepest truths even if
they are too painful to confront. I help people to do that.
The heart of my work is simply to help people become more
conscious. When we’re more conscious of ourselves,
we become more conscious of everyone else.
Kathryn: So, I want to make sure I
understand this. Do you believe that absolutely every single
physical ailment stems from a suppressed emotion?
Dr. King: Let me answer that this way: I have not yet found
one that wasn’t. We are first and foremost spiritual
beings who are here having a physical experience. And the
way we experience it is emotionally. Modern physics tells
us there is an energetic field around everything, including
our body. So, when we feel anger, fear or grief, if we don’t
process it out completely, it stays in our field or our
body. But surely, it doesn’t go away. And that’s
what causes all our physical problems.
Kathryn: So, we really need to learn
to listen to our bodies and that small voice within. And
that reminds me of another of your quotes that I loved.
You said, “Intuition is a skill, not just a gift for
a special few.”
Dr. King: That’s true and I tell people all the time
that this isn’t magic. It is a gift we all possess
that has simply been lost over time. Thousands of years
ago everyone had heightened intuitive abilities, but for
us, they have been culturally suppressed. The first thing
we tell our children when they are two or three years old
is, “No, no there really isn’t someone there
in the shadows” or “No, you didn’t see
Grandpa. Grandpa’s dead.” Consequently, by the
time they’re seven years old, we’ve pretty well
quashed their intuition. And with the people I’ve
worked with, everyone in the audience has one or more of
these abilities. They might know whose calling on the phone
before they pick it up, or they might know what a friend
or relative is experiencing thousands of miles away. So,
the point is, we all have some of these abilities and I
can teach people how to develop their hidden gifts.
Kathryn: Can you give us one way of
developing our intuition?
Dr. King: The most important thing to do is to honor it.
When we dishonor it, it ceases working for us. It says,
“Oh, you don’t want to know that. Okay, I won’t
bother to tell you next time.” And so, what I mean
by honoring your intuition is to listen and follow. If your
intuition says, “Don’t go up that driveway,
there’s something up there,” then don’t
question it, don’t second guess it, just don’t
go up the driveway. Because that is the deepest part of
you sending you important messages and it needs to be honored.
Due to the fact that we are not taught to honor it as children,
it takes a lot more effort to get it working later in life.
It’s like a muscle. If you cease to use it, it atrophies.
Kathryn: So, you’re saying that
the more we honor our intuition, the more often it will
lead us. It will blossom.
Dr. King: Yes, exactly, it will blossom just like a flower.
And it’s different for different people. Some might
feel it in their solar plexus, you know, in their gut –
that is the most common way. Yet, other people might see
something, or simply know something. But for most of us
the easiest one to develop is that feeling in your gut.
Kathryn: You’ve been quoted as
saying that the secret to life is to serve and give back.
Do you feel the healing work you do now is your service
and the way you were intended to give back?
Dr. King: It definitely is. I think this is a fact that’s
fairly commonly known among other people who are giving
back. We are all meant to be of service.
Kathryn: What lasting impression would
you like to leave on the world?
Dr. King: What I do is help people find that there really
is a way for them to be happy right now – with just
what they have and the way things are – right now.
It’s just a question of getting in touch with parts
of themselves that they’ve denied. Once they accept
their own truth, whatever it may be, they’ve found
their greatest strength. It will be the springboard from
which they can go absolutely anywhere they desire.
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